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SuperMajinGogeta4
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Sunday, January 24, 2010
I don't mean to hang my dirty clothes out for people to see but I had something happen to me tonight that was just unforgivable & I'm not sure what to do & I feel like my world is gone. Right from under my feet... It's more or less a relationship problem & a bad one at that. I'm not too sure if I should say what it is... It's pretty messed up... It's nothing I did anyway. It's what she did & I'm not sure really what to do... The inner me pretty much died. & yes I'm not emo for your information. I'm just not sure what to do...
Sorry I know it's a bit odd...
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TRL
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Sunday, January 24, 2010
She cheated on you?
Just slap her in the face or something. No, just kidding. Things like these really don't have a remedy. You have to live through it.
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SuperMajinGogeta4
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Sunday, January 24, 2010
It was more than that... When I told her it was over... Things turned for the worse... She freaked out & cut herself deeply in her arm near her wrist & a puddle of blood was all over the floor in my room... I was in shocked & I couldn't bare or handle to clean it up... I was starting to shack after I was cleaning it up as she was passing out as I called 911. I didn't get to go into the room where she's in the hospital... I'm worried sick. I'm not sure what to do other then I'm worried about her. At least it was only a BJ what she did... ='[
I really don't have anyone to go to... I know its kind of sad...
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Buksna
Blaizing
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Sunday, January 24, 2010
so let me get this right
she almost died, now she is in hospital in really bad shape and you are here posting a thread on Dragon Ball Z forum
If all what you said is true then you should be there by her side
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SuperMajinGogeta4
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Sunday, January 24, 2010
Buksna wrote : so let me get this right
she almost died, now she is in hospital in really bad shape and you are here posting a thread on Dragon Ball Z forum
If all what you said is true then you should be there by her side
If I could I would. They won't let me in the in the room to see her. They will only let the parents in for right now. I can't do anything. If I was allowed I wouldn't even be here posting. I love her to death. Trust me, I'd be right at her side. But I figure there is no point sitting in the waiting room. I can't do anything. =[
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emirh08
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Sunday, January 24, 2010
I'm sorry to tell you this but your ex is f-ing lacking,she cheats then she cuts herself,ATTENTION SEEKER.serious man your better off.
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The-Kakarotto
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Sunday, January 24, 2010
At least doing the best you can. I wish you the best of luck.
Don't beat yourself up, it is not your fault. Everything comes down to her. If you really love her with all your heart, forgive her and stay by her side all the while, if not, I hope for the best.
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kyle romano
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Sunday, January 24, 2010
dude don't give up if you really like her try you're hardest to make things right with her Postscript sorry for what happend to her
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Kos
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Sunday, January 24, 2010
that's messed up....but dude...if she was able to cut herself for something like that...who knows of what else she is capable...from what you said...she is NOT stable(no offense),and if I were you I would tell here she would had a better second chance if she would not do that cut that only proves how quick in actions she is without thinking(hope it came right ). well and also tell here...IF she LOVES you...she will fight for you and you for her...BUT never do lacking stuff. small things count to and if you area ''destined'' to be togehter you will BOTH will figure it out. in case you don't lover here/don't know your feelings bout here...I would break up...as I sad..she's to unstable, it's not like there are not enough girls out there...but remember..always treat them right
Postscript: hope it helped and sorry if I said something wrong or so... later and hope every thing works out. later
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SuperMajinGogeta4
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Sunday, January 24, 2010
Kos wrote : that's messed up....but dude...if she was able to cut herself for something like that...who knows of what else she is capable...from what you said...she is NOT stable(no offense),and if I were you I would tell here she would had a better second chance if she would not do that cut that only proves how quick in actions she is without thinking(hope it came right ). well and also tell here...IF she LOVES you...she will fight for you and you for her...BUT never do lacking stuff. small things count to and if you area ''destined'' to be togehter you will BOTH will figure it out. in case you don't lover here/don't know your feelings bout here...I would break up...as I sad..she's to unstable, it's not like there are not enough girls out there...but remember..always treat them right
Postscript: hope it helped and sorry if I said something wrong or so... later and hope every thing works out. later
You didn't offend me at all. If anything what got me was some of your grammar & spelling errors, *laughing out loud*. Anyway, you have a point. I'm by her side & making sure she doesn't do it again & I want her to be well & happy. I'm not sure if she's a sweet cakes or not. I can't really say & I would dislike to think that she is you know? I'm still talking to her to make sure she's okay & making sure she's not taking her shoe laces & hanging herself. Or doing something lacking.
Side note: She cut herself so good that there was no blood on my knife what so ever. I was shocked. That tells me she's had EXP with this. That's not good. & yes I do love her. Its just going to be hard to get passed this. Thank you for putting your 2 sense out there guys. This is a forum I enjoy coming too. I think most of everyone on here is a good person & know what they are talking about. This is why I came here 1st.
Thank you.
Also if anyone can help please feel free to contact me if you want. I have MSN, Yahoo, & AIM. Just ask for it.
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TheXenon
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Sunday, January 24, 2010
I can't have sympathy for someone who is telling us their personal real life problems on a Dragonball Z forum, that's just odd dude.. You need to handle this yourself not look for other peoples thoughts and opinions online and especially not from people whom you don't know.
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The-Kakarotto
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Monday, January 25, 2010
He is doing what he can. TheXenon, you are probably one of the biggest richard tophats I have ever spoken too, no sympathy for anyone. Get over yourself you dot.
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Buksna
Blaizing
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Monday, January 25, 2010
how old are you and your girlfriend....if you are above 16 than its moronic..sorry to say this
You are posting threads on forum while your girl is bleeding(well no more) in some hospital, because of some "love"
Your girl, cut herself for some "idotic" reason. That my girl do that I would kick her ars.. and say to her to bleed somewhere else...If she did that then she will do it again or attack you next time so you can bleed with her happily ever after
If you are less than 16 then tell her to cut herself again if she wants, and dump her like you don't care...it usually helps, or she'll kill herself
I would in your place got drunk and try to use her for one last time, and dump her and leave 5 dolars
Hope you are now feeling better
Regards
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TRL
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Monday, January 25, 2010
^ best post ever
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Lfs
Z Artist
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Monday, January 25, 2010
Well, this seems to be a difficult situation. I can recommend you and your girlfriend to have a talk and if it doesn't work tell her to go to psychologist. Or you could do that both. (Psychologist is a person who helps people to find the most suitable answers to their problems. It's not like psychiatrist as most of people tend to compare. Psychiatrist helps when the lloyd starts speaking to you. Their are two very different people - one helps to find the answers, while the other one does the diagnosis of the mental problems you have). It's a very good way to solve the problems.
Though, I'm quite sure she will have few sessions with psychiatrist already as she tried to commit a suicide. Anyhow, you shouldn't fall into despair too much. It's very sad what she did - yes, but a lot of people break up, they divorce after 20 years of marriage and they continue to live. What she did, is very childish behaviour to my mind. The fact about a life is that you must face the problem and try looking for the best solution to it. If you are taking such actions like your ex did, it means a nothing more but a self-fishness. If you know how to face and solve the problem, then my friend you can call yourself an adult.
Remember mate: the world is built on problems; only problems keep the world spinning, else it wouldn't be so interesting if we had all the answers.
Best of luck, hopefully you will find the solution, and don't take my suggestions or my thoughts deeply as I was stating my position/giving you some advices. Best of luck again, hopefully, everything will be O.okay. soon. Take care.
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mrjoe94
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Monday, January 25, 2010
TheXenon is wrong, this part of the forum is a FREE forum you can post what you want without going off-topic, just like a big MSN chat. In other words. THIS PART OF THE FORUM IS NOT A Dragon Ball Z FORUM. < if he doesn't get that he's severly lacking in braincells. (I actually mean lacking not stewpid)
Postscript ^ best defintition of Psychiatrist
ever "a Psychiatrist is the person you go to when lloyd starts speaking to you".
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TheXenon
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Monday, January 25, 2010
That doesn't change the fact that he is posting is problems to strangers online... that's lacking in identifiable function. He needs to seek out his real friends or family members to help him with his issues not gamers online how do you not understand that? I'm not trying to be a richard tophat I'm telling him how he should go about the situation. If you guys are telling me you ACTUALLY care about this and are thinking about him and his problem through out the day hoping it gets better you're lying.
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Buksna
Blaizing
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Monday, January 25, 2010
TheXenon wrote : That doesn't change the fact that he is posting is problems to strangers online... that's lacking in identifiable function. He needs to seek out his real friends or family members to help him with his issues not gamers online how do you not understand that? I'm not trying to be a richard tophat I'm telling him how he should go about the situation. If you guys are telling me you ACTUALLY care about this and are thinking about him and his problem through out the day hoping it gets better you're lying.
all true
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ESFER25
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Monday, January 25, 2010
TheXenon wrote : That doesn't change the fact that he is posting is problems to strangers online... that's lacking in identifiable function. He needs to seek out his real friends or family members to help him with his issues not gamers online how do you not understand that? I'm not trying to be a richard tophat I'm telling him how he should go about the situation. If you guys are telling me you ACTUALLY care about this and are thinking about him and his problem through out the day hoping it gets better you're lying.
AWESOME WORDS .
True by the way
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Lfs
Z Artist
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Monday, January 25, 2010
I've a negative position in front of TheXenon. This is a free forum, you can open your mind here in all ways you want as long as it remains in logical way. The guy asked for a help, so what's problem? If we are growing a developer community, it doesn't matter that all discussions should be game development/gaming related, especially when it's a FREE FORUM section.
If you consider yourself a TOUGH gamer, then you would simply ignore this. I don't find it logical that TheXenon finds this as "innormal". In most of cases, virtual friends can help to solve the problems by giving few possible ways to solve them. Doesn't it sound logical?
And in fact, like I've said many times to people, we are not robots -- we have our lifes, our problems and it's obviously sufficient to try helping out to others while giving some solution ways and so on.
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TheXenon
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Monday, January 25, 2010
The point is not that this is a gaming forum the point is that no one cares so you can drop the front brother.
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Lfs
Z Artist
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Monday, January 25, 2010
TheXenon wrote : The point is not that this is a gaming forum the point is that no one cares so you can drop the front brother.
Maybe I do?
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TheXenon
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Monday, January 25, 2010
I'm sure you do.
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TRL
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Monday, January 25, 2010
If you care for a split second and offer help, it's enough. You don't have to be crying all day alongside him.
It can be TheXenon that you actually don't give a rat's buttocks. Just don't generalise that too others. Hey there might even be some girls on here. They always care.
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Buksna
Blaizing
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Monday, January 25, 2010
nice one about girls
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